Let’s face it, the bar scene sucks. Guys are looking for one thing only when they’re at a bar, and that isn’t the love of their life. If you want to get serious about meeting guys, you have to venture a little further.
One of the best ways to meet a guy is also one that most women tend to overlook, and that is at the grocery store. Think about it, single guys need groceries, and there is really only one place to get them. You’ll find all kinds here – especially the type who doesn’t frequent the bars.
When guys are grocery shopping, they are usually annoyed to be there listening to the terrible music and the chore of having to find what they need for the week. And then from out of nowhere, this stunningly beautiful woman (you) walks into his aisle.
So when should you go and how do you prepare? Hands down you want to go on a Monday or Tuesday night. Most guys would rather chew their own arm off than go grocery shopping on the weekend. As for what you need to do, you need to stand out from the rest of the women in there. That means looking hot. Just not too hot – you don’t want to make it obvious that you’re on the hunt. Wear your sexiest business outfit and leave a button or two undone more that you typically would at work. Smell great. You want to...
So you’re about to go on a first date with someone new and you need a little insight into first date etiquette. Read on to learn everything you need to know.
First off, what should you wear? This one is pretty easy but it depends on where the date is going to be. The general rule of thumb is to look nice and not under dressed. If you overdress, you can almost always make yourself look a little more casual by taking off a tie or removing a necklace and earrings.
If you are going to a concert, dress like you belong – t-shirt, jeans, shorts, etc. If you’re going to an exclusive restaurant, then wear current and appropriate clothes (it’s a good idea to call the restaurant ahead of time and ask what their dress code is). Most of all, you want to impress your date and also be comfortable with what you are wearing and not let the feeling of not fitting in distract you from having a good time.
The next thing to think about is the time you are meeting. If you are being picked up, be ready at the time you agreed upon. If you are the one picking up, be prompt – no one likes to sit around waiting for their date to pick them up.
Now that the date has started, what do you do? First of all, make every effort to start the conversation and keep it going....
So you’re about to go out on your first date, but have no idea of what you want to do? Read on ‘cause we’ve got some great ideas for you. Whatever you do, just don’t do the cliché dinner and a movie thing.
1. Coffee Shop
A coffee shop is an awesome idea for a first date since it is relaxed and filled with other people. You can really get to know your date by just sitting there sipping on your coffee and having a nice, genuine conversation. If you’re the one who initiated the date, be sure to pick up the tab on your date’s coffee.
2. Bar with friends
If you want to keep it really low key and low pressure, ask your date if they’d like to go out with some friends together. This will let your date feel comfortable by being around their friends and also take the pressure off of making the conversation keep flowing as there will be others there to add to it. Just don’t get super drunk and make a fool of yourself. After the bar you could break off into just the two of you by going to a coffee shop (see above) or a nightclub (see below) for some hot dancing.
Going to a club can be a great date, assuming it’s the right club. You don’t want to go to the loudest and most packed club – rather go to a...
Are you tired of trying to pick up women at a club or a bar for more than just a one night stand? Yeah, who wouldn’t be – those two places are among the worst for trying to find a meaningful relationship. But never fear, I’ve got two great ideas for you below.
Holy yes, this is the jackpot. Cooking classes might sound like a crazy idea, but these places are literally crawling with hot and single women. And these are the type of women who are looking for a long term relationship. What’s more, they are typically the nurturing personality type, the kind of woman who likes to take care of her man. Do you think the stuck up snob chicks that you are meeting at the club are the same type that would be going to a cooking class? No way.
You can find cooking classes in any city around the world. And many times, if they are at a high end cooking supply store like Williams Sonoma, they are offered free to get you in the door to buy their products.The best way to find cooking classes near you would just be to google “Cooking classes in [my city]”, putting in whatever city you live in.
So once you’re in the class, how do you go about picking up one of these hot and single women? This is so easy, it should be illegal. Most times, you’ll be working at a...